Why you’re more likely to reach your goals when you stop going at it alone
You’ve set goals before, maybe to improve your mental health, stick to a new habit, or feel more focused. But life happens. Motivation fades. And before you know it, your goal is on the back burner again.
That’s not a failure of willpower. It’s a missing system.
What if the secret to finally following through isn’t just discipline or grit, but something far simpler, and more powerful?
Accountability turns intentions into outcomes. It’s more than just telling someone what you plan to do, it’s a system of follow-up, encouragement, and shared commitment. And the science behind it is striking:
These numbers show that accountability isn’t just helpful, it’s transformational.
1. It creates external structure.
When you have to check in with someone, you’re less likely to procrastinate or give up. The structure forces consistency, even on the days you feel like quitting.
2. It taps into social psychology.
Humans are wired to care what others think. When you know someone else is paying attention, your sense of responsibility increases, and so does your follow-through.
3. It boosts motivation and belief.
When someone else believes in your goal with you, it’s easier to stay encouraged and course-correct when things don’t go perfectly.
4. It reduces overwhelm.
Talking about your goals helps break them into smaller, more manageable steps. It’s a real-time feedback loop that supports momentum instead of burnout.
Here’s how you can start using accountability to increase your success, no matter what you’re working on:
If you’ve struggled to meet your goals in the past, it doesn’t mean you’re unmotivated or incapable, it might just mean you didn’t have the right support system.
Accountability adds the structure, feedback, and encouragement most of us need to stay committed. Whether you're working on your mental health, personal development, or everyday habits, inviting someone else into your process could be the key to finally making it stick.
About the Author
Katie Coon, BSN, RN
Clinic Manager & Lead Nurse – San Antonio
Katie Coon is the lead nurse and clinic manager at Transcend Health Solutions’ San Antonio location. With over five years of trauma critical care experience at a Level I trauma center, she brings deep expertise in patient safety and crisis care. After the pandemic, Katie transitioned into mental health nursing to support healing on a deeper level. She is currently pursuing her master’s degree to become a Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner. Outside of work, she enjoys time with her family, traveling, and enjoying her "silly little hobbies".